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HappyMom

HappyMom
Date Joined: April 1, 2009
Last Online: January 5, 2026
Birthday: August 10
Country: United States
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Nice to meet you!

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Hello! My name is Ilyse. I'm 69, have been married for 40 years and I'm mom to 2 grown kids, who are still my "babies". I've been pen-palling and swapping all my life and love it!

I recently retired (yeaaay!) after 50 years in broadcasting, sales and marketing. I'm now the full-time caregiver for my husband, who is battling multiple health issues. My radio show on THE BREEZE, is my little self-care escape, along with my pen pals, swaps and crafts.

In case you're wondering...My name is pronounced the same way as 'what you sign when you rent an apartment': A-LEASE. Now you know 😁 us

Things I love

I ❤️ Summer, hot weather, beaches, lighthouses, tropical flowers, palm trees, trade winds, volcanoes and anything Hawaiian.

Favorite colors: Ocean hues, Jewel tones or Pastels - Bright or soft. Earth tones in Fall.

ATC's, Postcards, Pretty stationery.

Anything wine-themed or coffee-themed!

Dogs & puppies, sloths, kittens, pandas, giraffes, owls, deer, eagles, sea life, birds and butterflies.

Handmade things with extra love!

Motivational, spiritual and cute sayings, stickers, ephemera, stationery, planner and scrapbook supplies, journal supplies, Washi tape.

Papyrus, Peter Pauper Press, Rifle Paper Company, Lantern Press, Mary Englebreit, Suzy's Zoo, Hallmark, Punch Studio, Lou Paper, Current, Life is Good.

I swap Friendship Books, Sticker books and Slams. I prefer "High Quality" or "Nice & Neat" FBs -- No sloppy books with jagged edges please. No label bags, lyrics, FSS, etc.. Thanks for sending nice books - I will do the same!

Other Interests: NY Times puzzles, Scrabble, technology, and photography. I spend way too much time on social media! Look me up!

Postcards

I ❤️ postcards!

**Beaches and tropical scenes

**The Northern Lights

**Hot-air balloons

**Mountains and waterfalls

**Rock-climbing and hiking

**Lantern Press cards

**Lighthouses

**Typography and Graphic Design

**Pretty churches, castles and historic buildings

**Children playing

**Animals

**City skylines

**Handmade art cards welcome

Not a fan of vintage postcards, unless they're from Hawaii.

Favorite Television

Outlander, American Idol, The Rookie, Call The Midwife, Gray's Anatomy, Chicago Fire/Med, Hawaii 5-0, Shark Tank, Catfish, all the HGTV stuff and House Hunters or Buying Hawaii/Hawaii Life. And, don't ask why, but Married at First Sight, Love Is Blind, The Bachelor and Bachelorette too.

Dislikes

Please note - I'm very sensitive to cigarette smells, so please don't send swaps that have a strong odor.

Kiddie, reward or tiny stickers, poor quality notecards, dark-themed or evil things, out-of-season holiday items, candy or snacks. I don't do Halloween, but I love Fall and Thanksgiving.

I'm very unhappy with the way things are going in our country and the world. Please - no politics!

Not a fan of the "Silent 5"!

The Golden Rule

Please rate promptly - I promise to do the same!

When I host swaps, I promise to angel any not received. I check profiles and swapping history, as well as rating consistency before assigning partners.

Good communication is key. If you're going to miss a deadline, let me know. I prefer quality over quantity and believe in accountability. If you don't receive something from me, or if you have a question about a swap I host or participate in, please PM or email me.

Overall, I'm easy to please and almost always enjoy and appreciate everything my swap partners share!

Ratings

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Comment: Thanks for the fun swap and the xmas bookmark - very nice!
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Comment: Thank you! I’m a bit of night owl and early bird too but work forces me to be an early bird. I look forward to when I won’t have to be on such a rigid schedule. :)
Response: Happy New Year - glad you got the card OK and for sharing your thoughts about schedules!
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Comment: Thank you for the card. I have binged more than my share of TV series too, mostly Star Wars stuff on Disney. I really like Shogun too. Best regards and Happy New Year. Richard
Response: Thanks Richard! We just watched "Ripples" and really enjoyed it!
porpie5 rated for 📸 My Favorite Photos - December on Jan 3, 2026
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Comment: Thanks for sharing and I loved the raccoon story!
Response: Thank you for the heart - the raccoon is now my spirit animal :)
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Comment: Thanks for your photos! The raccoon even made it onto the news here...maybe there was nothing else worthy of reporting that day haha, or people just like the absurdity of it. Let's hope for a peaceful 2026.
apocaleepse rated for TGIF Weekend Notecard #473 on Jan 3, 2026
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Comment: Thanks for sharing about your weekend. glad to hear you are able to find joy despite tragedy
Response: Thank you.
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Comment: I will pass these postcards on to thanks for the extras!
Response: Thanks so much and thank you for the heart!
Sophie2000 rated for AWP 43 (ANYCARD W/PROMPT) on Jan 2, 2026
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Comment: thank you for the cute PC - great song list. I love Heard it in a love song -- haven't heard that in a while. Happy New Year !!
Response: Glad my card made you smile - Long live MTB! And thanks for the heart!
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Comment: Thank you for the lovely Hawaii postcard! I have a cousin that lived there for many years and I should have gone to visit her there when I had the chance! Hopefully I’ll still get to visit someday! xo
Response: I really hope you get to go to Hawaii one day...and enjoy the aloha spirit! Thank you for the heart too :)
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Comment: Thank you for the lovely postcard.
Response: You're welcome. Happy New Year!
rishma rated for TGIF Weekend Notecard #474 on Dec 31, 2025
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Comment: So glad to hear from you haha definitely feels like penpalling! Thank you for letting me know about the mold in the ice dispenser -- I actually just checked and I seem to have some as well... I guess that's now another thing I have to clean... And thank you for your holiday newsletter as well! I love getting to see your life updates :)
Response: Glad you enjoyed the note and thanks for the heart. Isn't that mold gross????
Eulegirl rated for SCATTS - K - ROUND 17 - US ONLY on Dec 30, 2025
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Comment: Thank you for the Kauai card and your answers. I, too, would need help with renovation!
Response: We're getting ready to do our downstairs bathroom, so wish us luck!
mchesser12 rated for AWP 42 (ANYCARD W/PROMPT) on Dec 27, 2025
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Comment: Thanks for the Cajun Riviera postcard and sharing the list of songs that came from your Spotify playlist.
Response: You're welcome - and thank you for the heart!
NRGordon rated for ESG: My Favorite Photo - October on Dec 26, 2025
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Comment: Great pix!. Thank You. Sorry this rating is so late. I apparently typed them all in and then didn't click on "save".
Response: No problem - I appreciate the comments and the heart!
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Comment: Thank you for sharing your lovely photos. I love Christmas so it is a great fun to see how people decorate for the holidays in different countries.
Response: I agree - so fun to see life around the world! Happy New Year and thanks for the heart!
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Comment: Thank you so much for the Hanukkah card! Happy to pass along the RRs 💜
Response: You're so welcome - I hope you had a beautiful holiday, and thanks for the heart!
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Comment: Thank you for the FB. I will make sure to pass them along to the next person. Happy Holidays to you and to your family.
Response: Thanks - glad you got the FBs OK! Merry Christmas to you as well!
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Comment: Lovely Christmas photos for each of the categories. I love Tilly's big ears. Your daughter has quite the decor talent, gorgeous Christmas tree!
Response: So glad you liked the photos I shared - always hard to decide! Hope you have a great holiday and thanks for the heart!
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Comment: Thank you! :)
Response: You're welcome - Happy Holidays and thanks for the heart!
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Comment: Thanks for the postcard! I would love to be on Jeopardy, too!
Response: Thanks and Merry Christmas!

Rating Overview

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Comments

yvonne401 on Jan 1, 2026:

Hi Ilyse! Wishing you a Happy New Year! May the coming year be filled with happy memories and good times with family and friends! Stay safe!

Love and blessings,

Your friend, Yvonne

TerryONB on Dec 25, 2025:

Thank you for sending my RRTPC home that I started in round 214. Happy holidays to you!

yvonne401 on Dec 25, 2025:

Hi Ilyse!

Wishing you a blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Love and blessings,

Your friend, Yvonne

yvonne401 on Dec 21, 2025:

Hi Ilyse!

Thanks so much for the Christmas card!

Wishing you a fun and safe Winter!

Love and blessings,

Your friend, Yvonne

mchesser12 on Dec 19, 2025:

Thanks for adding to my RRTPC I started in round 225.

mchesser12 on Dec 13, 2025:

Thanks for adding to my Round Robin postcard in round 220.

yvonne401 on Nov 28, 2025:

Hi Ilyse!

I hope you had a blessed Thanksgiving!

Love and blessings,

Your friend, Yvonne

OrigamiGrace on Oct 6, 2025:

Thank you for the awesome World Postcard Day!! I love daydreaming about being on the ocean or at the beach so this is perfect! Thanks so much!

ariestess on Jun 29, 2025:

Have a lovely summer!
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yvonne401 on Jun 22, 2025:

Hi Ilyse!

Wishing you a fun and safe summer!

Love and blessings,

Your friend, Yvonne

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